Pushing through to a win win - 9/30/2019
Read MoreDuring my thirties, I found myself in a senior management position, having accomplished the career goals I had set for myself. Despite these achievements, during that time of the death of my Father, a relationship break up and work issues, I felt like something was broken or needed fixing inside me and I didn’t know what to do.
I felt lost, confused, and frightened and when I came across a Counselling course with Cruse Bereavement Care as part of my work requirement this was the start of my experience with Counselling.
Enrolling in the course helped me begin to make sense of some of the internal struggles I was experiencing. I came to realise that, among other things, I was grieving. However, even after completing my training, I continued to feel incomplete. Although I was helping others, I found that I was neglecting my own needs. This pattern persisted for years as I pursued further therapeutic interventions and explored a variety of healing modalities and belief systems.
Learning to Attend to My Own Needs
I met spiritual teacher and speaker Zahir Khan at a talk on Non-Duality and Self-Enquiry. Working with him helped me recognise the needs and areas of my life I had been avoiding. Gradually, I began to face difficult emotions, make decisions and have honest conversations.
(Please click here for more information about Zahir).
Present Day
I am sharing this part of my story because I believe it is important for prospective clients to know that I genuinely understand how challenging these experiences can be.
I am someone who has personally grappled with and found meaning in problems, failures, poor judgements, and difficult decisions. My journey has been about more than just surviving.
It is never too late to start this journey. In my practice, I work with clients aged between the ages of 22 and 85, and all begin to thrive once they recognise the value of this work.
Exploring emotions and recognising your needs can be challenging.
But you do not have to approach this alone.
If this resonates with you, please get in touch. I offer a free telephone consultation to briefly discuss your concerns and explore whether we would feel comfortable working together.
Call 0793 5247066 - email janet.astle@outlook.com or use the form on here to get in touch. I look forward to hearing from you.
The only thing that stops you being free, is the belief that you aren’t free already

Talking therapy and Body work to support your emotional, mental health wellbeing and recovery.
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Some prospective clients seek spiritual guidance on identity, purpose and life. This page introduces spiritual teacher Zahir Khan and shares my experience of his work.
Zahir Khan is described as a contemporary mystic in the Sufi tradition.
Zahir spent eight years studying with a master of the Qadriyya school of Sufism before continuing his studies and meeting teachers from the Nondual and Advaita traditions. His approach emphasises making spirituality accessible and relevant to everyday life. He speaks to companies and individuals and offers retreats, meetings and personal coaching. He is also a published author with an audience in the UK and internationally.
Before meeting Zahir, I explored various belief systems and trained in healing modalities. His guidance helped me reflect on my life and choices, bringing greater peace and clarity.
My father’s death, a relationship breakdown and a change in my job role left me with a lasting sense of disconnection and uncertainty.
Years later, I met Zahir at a Nonduality meeting in Totnes, Devon. I felt a sense of recognition and understanding that took time to put into words.
My time working with Zahir has been a meaningful part of my personal journey. I have found his approach considerate and supportive. His guidance has helped me develop a steadier sense of peace and clarity.
Zahir holds weekly talks at the Friends Meeting House in Manchester.
Details are available on his events page. He also offers monthly workshops, including short and extended sessions, exploring spirituality, identity, life, consciousness and reality.
For further information, visit his social media pages or contact me if I can help with your enquiry.
His books, Falling into the Mystery and Reflections, are available to purchase through Amazon.
(If you are local to Brixham, Devon I have some books available to purchase if you prefer to purchase in that way).
Falling into the Mystery
Reflections
Pushing through to a win win - 9/30/2019
Read MoreKeeping your home and thoughts in order.. 8/9/2019
Read MorePerhaps only when you are "out in the cold" will you find these treasure chests of beautiful truth. 12/2/2016
Read MoreWhen you feel as if the wave will toss you, being pulled from limb to limb... be the one to catch Yourself when you eventually drop 10/16/2016
Read MoreWill you allow Yourself to fall, do you fall?... 5/3/2016.
Read MoreWhat remains in this moment is still you. 4/16/2016
Read MoreWhen an old fear arises from a depth somewhere, it offers opportunity to let go of something 4/4/2016
Read MoreDon’t abandon yourself, stay with you right now. 7/31/2015
Read MoreHelp is Available
If you have been experiencing any suicidal thoughts, or require immediate help, please call 111, contact your GP or call the Samaritans on 116 123
Mental Health Support:
Samaritans Call: 116 123
Mind Call: 0300 123 3393 or text 86463
Children and Young Adults Support:
Checkpoint (The Children's Society)
Brixham Youth Enquiry (The Edge)
Bereavement Support:
Cruse
Children and Families in Grief
Domestic Abuse Support:
Torbay Domestic Abuse Service Call: 01803 698869 or 0345 155 1074
Women's Aid
ManKind Initiative Call: 01823 334244
For Older People:
The Silver Line - A helpline run by Age UK is a free, confidential telephone service for older people.
Spiritual Guidance:
Zahir Khan - fallingintothemystery.com